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What Do You Do at Pride: The Complete First-Timer's Guide

Written by: Jennifer - Modern Outfit Expert

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Time to read 7 min

Pride events celebrate love, equality, and community through parades, festivals, and parties that welcome everyone ready to honor LGBTQ+ history and culture.


From Stockholm's week-long Pride festival running late July through early August to São Paulo's record-holding parade that draws 3-5 million attendees annually, Pride has evolved into a global phenomenon that adapts to each community's unique needs.


If you plan on attending to show support, celebrate your own identity, or simply experience one of the world's most colorful festivals, knowing what to expect helps you make the most of this meaningful experience.


In this guide, you'll learn exactly what happens at Pride events, get essential activities for first-time attendees, understand how to participate respectfully, and receive practical tips for preparing for Pride day.

What Actually Happens at Pride Events

Pride combines parade spectacle, festival energy, and community celebration into one incredible day of activism and joy.

The Main Parade Experience

Pride parades bring thousands of marchers together while crowds cheer from sidewalks lined with rainbow flags. At San Francisco Pride, for instance, which draws around 1 million spectators annually, hundreds of groups march along Market Street past the iconic rainbow crosswalks. You'll see elaborate floats from local businesses mixed with grassroots activists carrying homemade signs.


The energy feels infectious as marchers throw beads, blow kisses, and dance down the street while spectators wave back with equal enthusiasm.


Different cities create their parade personalities. Amsterdam features its famous Canal Parade with 80 decorated boats sailing through the city's waterways, while Stockholm's celebration includes Pride Park, a massive festival ground that serves as the heart of their week-long festivities.

Festival Activities & Community Spaces

After the parade passes, community festivals transform parks and streets into bustling marketplaces. Local LGBTQ+ businesses showcase everything from handmade jewelry to pride-themed treats. Multiple stages host live performances throughout the day, from drag shows to speeches from community leaders.


In larger cities like NYC, during their annual Pride March, which consistently draws 2-2.5 million attendees, festivals sprawl across multiple neighborhoods with specialized areas.


Family-friendly zones featured face painting and story time, while adult areas hosted dance parties. Smaller Pride events create more intimate community gatherings where connections form easily.

Evening Celebrations

The celebration continues well into the night with club events, rooftop parties, and community gatherings. These evening festivities range from massive dance parties to intimate drag brunches the next morning. For these celebrations, consider stylish options from Born in Stockholm's Party Dresses collection that transition perfectly from day to night.


Most Pride events span full days or entire weekends. Expect crowds, lots of walking, and a full day of celebration. If you want to stand out while staying comfortable, choose eye-catching outfits from Born in Stockholm's Festival Clothing Collection designed for extended wear.

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Essential Activities for First-Time Attendees

Strategic planning helps you soak up the magic without missing key experiences during your first Pride.

Get There Early & Find Your Spot

Prime parade viewing spots disappear quickly. In NYC, the best spots along Fifth Avenue fill up by 9 AM for the noon parade start. The steps of the New York Public Library offer elevated views, while Washington Square Park provides great photo opportunities with the iconic arch backdrop.


When arriving early, make sure to bring folding chairs or a blanket with you. Scout locations are using Pride organization maps posted online weeks beforehand. Consider accessibility needs and identify nearby restrooms, food vendors, and shaded areas for breaks.

Join In or Cheer On

You can either march in the parade or cheer from the sidelines. Many organizations welcome supporters to join their groups, though registration often closes weeks ahead. If you're marching, prepare for a 1-3 mile walk in potentially warm weather. Comfortable pieces like Born in Stockholm's Bodysuits offer freedom of movement without sacrificing festival style.


Sidewalk supporters create the electric atmosphere that energizes marchers throughout the route. Bring noisemakers, signs, or just your voice to show appreciation for the people who make Pride possible.

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Support Local Businesses & Experience Entertainment

Community vendor areas offer unique Pride merchandise and local resources you won't find elsewhere. Many vendors create items specifically for local Pride events. Advocacy groups share information about volunteer opportunities that extend beyond Pride weekend.


Main stages showcase incredible community talent, from drag performances to live music. Join sing-alongs, learn chants, and show appreciation for performers. The high-energy atmosphere pairs perfectly with bold looks from Born in Stockholm's Concert Outfits collection.

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Build Connections & Take Care of Yourself

Pride offers unique opportunities to connect with community groups that align with your interests or identity. Exchange contact information with professional networks, hobby groups, or volunteer organizations. Many lifelong friendships begin at Pride events.


Pride events are marathons lasting 8-12 hours with limited shade and lots of walking. Take regular breaks, find air-conditioned spaces during peak sun hours, and listen to your body. You don't need to experience every activity - pacing yourself ensures energy for what matters most to you.

How to Participate Respectfully

Respectful participation means understanding Pride's significance while supporting LGBTQ+ voices rather than treating the event as entertainment.

Understanding Pride's Purpose

Pride events celebrate progress while continuing the fight for equality. These gatherings honor joyful milestones like marriage equality and ongoing activism for transgender rights, workplace protections, and global LGBTQ+ safety. Celebration and protest work hand in hand at modern Pride events.


Take a community-centered approach by supporting LGBTQ+ voices rather than making yourself the center of attention. Listen more than you speak, follow community members' lead, and remember your role is to support rather than direct the celebration.

Respectful Documentation and Sharing

Always ask permission before photographing others, especially in close-up shots. Some attendees may not be out in all areas of their lives, making unwanted photography potentially harmful. Respect "no photos" requests immediately and graciously.


Focus on celebrating community joy and activism rather than treating Pride as entertainment. Share information about local LGBTQ+ organizations and ways to get involved beyond Pride weekend. Put devices away during serious speeches or memorial moments.


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What to Do Before Attending Pride Day

Smart preparation ensures comfort and safety for full Pride celebration enjoyment.

Hydrate and Protect Your Skin

Start increasing water intake 2-3 days before Pride. Pack multiple water bottles and electrolyte packets for extended outdoor time. Apply broad-spectrum SPF 30+ sunscreen 30 minutes before heading out, and reapply every two hours.


Check weather forecasts and pack light layers. San Francisco Pride starts sunny and ends foggy, while Miami Pride stays hot all day. Protect yourself stylishly with options from Born in Stockholm's Hats & Caps collection.

Plan for Safety and Communication

Designate specific meeting points before separating in crowds. Choose backup locations and establish check-in times. Cell service often becomes spotty in large crowds, so download offline maps before leaving home.


Pack basic first aid supplies, emergency cash, and personal medications. Keep emergency money separate from main funds in case of lost wallets.

Express Yourself Authentically & Dress for the Occasion

Choose Pride flags, rainbow gear, and temporary tattoos that reflect your genuine connection to the event. Born in Stockholm's Face Gems & Stickers collection offers beautiful options for authentic expression.


Select comfort-first pieces allowing complete freedom of movement for 8+ hours outdoors. Consider weather-appropriate layers and express yourself through fashion choices that feel true to your style.


The Luna Sequin Festival Set Pink offers comfortable parade wear that moves with you through hours of celebration.


The Simone Rhinestone Bodysuit Multicolor transitions beautifully from day to evening events.


The Amelia Rainbow Sequin Set delivers stunning visual impact while maintaining all-day comfort.

What to Do at Pride FAQs

Do I need to identify as LGBTQ+ to attend Pride events?

Pride welcomes allies and supporters alongside community members. Remember you're attending as a guest in spaces created by and for LGBTQ+ people. Focus on supporting community voices rather than centering your own experience.

What if I'm not ready to come out but want to attend Pride?

Pride offers safe spaces to explore identity without pressure to come out publicly. Participate at whatever level feels comfortable and safe for your situation.

How much does it cost to attend Pride events?

Most Pride parades and basic festival activities are free. You might spend money on transportation, food, drinks, and merchandise, but the core experience remains accessible regardless of budget.

What should I do if I experience harassment?

Report harassment immediately to Pride security, law enforcement, or event organizers. Don't hesitate to seek help from nearby community members who typically support each other actively.

Ready to Celebrate Pride?

Pride offers an entry point into a vibrant community that celebrates authenticity year-round. Approach Pride with respect, openness, and genuine appreciation for the activism that makes these celebrations possible.


Before Pride, research your local event, choose your outfit from Born in Stockholm's Pride Collection, and pack essentials. During the event, participate authentically, document respectfully, and focus on meaningful connections.


After Pride, however, continue supporting LGBTQ+ causes throughout the year. The real work happens in the other 51 weeks when the community still needs support. Enjoy Pride Day and continue your support and advocacy all year long.